Jennifer Garner and Ben Affleck on Life as Co-Parents

January 16, 2026 — Jennifer Garner and Ben Affleck may no longer be married, but they remain firmly united when it comes to parenting their three children. Over the years, both stars have spoken candidly about what matters most to them as parents, offering rare insight into how they’ve navigated family life in the public eye.

Despite their Hollywood careers, Garner and Affleck have consistently emphasized keeping their children grounded, protected, and out of the spotlight as much as possible.

WASHINGTON, DC - DECEMBER 01: Actress Jennifer Garner and her daughter Violet arrive for the White House state dinner for French President Emmanuel Macron at the White House on December 1, 2022 in Washington, DC. The official state visit is the first for the Biden administration. (Photo by Nathan Howard/Getty Images)

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Putting Their Kids First

Garner and Affleck share three children — Violet, Seraphina, and Samuel — and both have repeatedly said that parenthood reshaped their priorities. Garner has often described motherhood as the most important role of her life, explaining that career decisions frequently take a backseat to her children’s needs.

Affleck has echoed similar sentiments, noting in past interviews that being a father changed how he views success. He has spoken openly about wanting to be present, reliable, and emotionally available — especially after facing personal struggles earlier in his life.

Jennifer Garner (R) and her daughter Violet Affleck listen to Ben Affleck testify before a Senate Appropriations State, Foreign Operations, and Related Programs Subcommittee hearing on "Diplomacy, Development, and National Security" on Capitol Hill in Washington March 26, 2015

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Keeping Childhood Normal

One value both parents agree on is maintaining normalcy. Garner has said she works hard to ensure her kids experience everyday routines like school drop-offs, homework, and family dinners, rather than being absorbed into Hollywood culture.

Affleck has also shared that he wants his children to understand responsibility and effort, regardless of their parents’ fame. He’s explained that shielding them from entitlement is a conscious, ongoing effort.

Together, they’ve tried to create a family environment that feels stable, predictable, and safe.

 Ben Affleck and Samuel Garner Affleck attend a basketball game between the Los Angeles Lakers and the Minnesota Timberwolves at Crypto.com Arena on February 27, 2025 in Los Angeles, California.

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Co-Parenting With Mutual Respect

Since their divorce, Garner and Affleck have spoken positively about their co-parenting relationship. Both have emphasized communication, consistency, and respect as key to making it work.

Garner has previously explained that even when parenting disagreements arise, the focus always returns to what’s best for the kids. Affleck has credited Garner with being an incredible mother and a steady presence in their children’s lives.

Their ability to co-parent amicably has often been praised as a model for blended and separated families.

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Lessons They Hope to Pass On

When it comes to values, both parents have spoken about teaching kindness, empathy, and accountability. Garner has said she hopes her children grow up feeling secure in who they are, rather than pressured by expectations.

Affleck has shared that he wants his kids to learn from his mistakes as well as his successes. He’s spoken about being honest with them in age-appropriate ways, particularly about resilience and personal growth.

Balancing Fame and Family

While both actors remain in the public eye, they’ve worked carefully to protect their children’s privacy. Garner has been especially vocal about advocating for children of celebrities, pushing for boundaries when it comes to media coverage.

Affleck has supported that approach, noting that fame should never come at the expense of a child’s sense of safety or identity.

A United Front for Their Children

Through career highs, personal challenges, and life changes, Jennifer Garner and Ben Affleck have remained consistent on one front: their commitment to their kids.

By prioritizing communication, stability, and love, they’ve shown that parenting doesn’t end with marriage — and that putting children first can remain the strongest bond of all.

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