Jennifer Lopez made headlines once again—not for her chart-topping hits or red carpet glamour—but for a bold and refreshingly honest statement she made during her live concert in Spain.

The Moment That Sparked It All

July 17, 2025: During her “This Is Me… Now: The Tour” stop in Bilbao on July 15, Jennifer Lopez paused mid-performance to address a fan in the crowd holding a sign that read, “J.Lo, marry me!” Her reply? A cheeky but telling: 
“I think I’m done with that. I’ve tried that a few times.”

The audience burst into laughter and applause as the 55-year-old star shrugged it off with a smile. But fans and media couldn’t help but take the statement as a public reflection of Lopez’s journey through love—and its many lessons.

A Look Back at J.Lo’s Marriage History

Jennifer Lopez has walked down the aisle four times, with each chapter capturing intense public interest:

Ojani Noa (1997–1998) – Her first husband, a Cuban waiter-turned-restaurateur.

Cris Judd (2001–2003) – A dancer she met while filming a music video.

Marc Anthony (2004–2014) – With whom she shares twins Emme and Max.

Ben Affleck (2022–2025) – A rekindled romance that led to a highly publicized wedding and eventual split.

Her most recent marriage to Ben Affleck ended earlier this year, with the divorce finalized in January 2025. Despite hopeful beginnings, their rekindled love story ultimately didn’t stand the test of time.

Embracing Independence and Joy

Now back on stage and in the global spotlight, J.Lo is focusing on herself. Sources close to the superstar say she feels “healthy,” “free,” and is embracing a new chapter filled with music, dance, and self-love.

Her “This Is Me… Now” tour—her first major tour in six years—is being hailed as a celebration of personal strength and artistic rebirth. With 21 cities across Europe, Lopez is connecting with fans in a more vulnerable, authentic way than ever before.

Done With Marriage—But Not With Love?

While Lopez may be “done” with marriage, it doesn’t necessarily mean she’s sworn off love entirely. Her candid on-stage comment seemed more about closing a chapter than shutting the book.

Whether she’s dancing on stage or navigating life off it, Jennifer Lopez continues to inspire millions with her resilience, honesty, and ability to reinvent herself—on her own terms.