Pop star criticizes ex-husband’s memoir, calling claims ‘extremely hurtful’ and ‘constant gaslighting’

A Public Dispute Unfolds

October 16, 2025: Britney Spears has publicly addressed the allegations made by her ex-husband, Kevin Federline, in his forthcoming memoir, You Thought You Knew. In a statement, Spears described the claims as “extremely hurtful and exhausting,” expressing frustration over the ongoing public scrutiny of her personal life. She accused Federline of engaging in “constant gaslighting,” which she stated has taken an emotional toll on her.

Allegations in the Memoir

Federline’s memoir includes several controversial assertions, including an incident where he claims to have found Spears “full-on making out” with a female dancer during a tour stop in Amsterdam. He also alleges that Spears used cocaine while breastfeeding and behaved erratically around their children. One particularly disturbing claim is that she would stand silently at their children’s bedroom door holding a knife.

Spears’ Response

In response, Spears vehemently denied these allegations, labeling them as false and damaging. She emphasized her dedication to her children and her desire for a positive relationship with them. Spears also criticized Federline for profiting from these personal narratives, especially after child support payments ended. She expressed sadness over the strained relationship with her sons, Sean Preston and Jayden James, and implied that their lack of engagement stems from witnessing years of disrespect toward her by her own father.

Looking Ahead

As the release of Federline’s memoir approaches, the public dispute between the former couple continues to unfold. Spears has indicated that she intends to focus on her personal well-being and maintain her privacy amidst the ongoing media attention.