Selena Gomez Opens Up About Her Relationship with Benny Blanco: Why She Couldn’t Have Accepted His Love 10 Years Ago
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Selena Gomez’s relationship with Benny Blanco is one that has blossomed over time, and now, as the couple embarks on their engagement journey, Gomez is reflecting on the growth that has shaped her ability to truly embrace the love Blanco offers. The pair recently sat down for an insightful interview with Interview magazine, where Gomez explained how her mindset has changed over the years.
A Decade of Growth: Why Gomez Couldn’t Have Accepted Unconditional Love Sooner
During the interview, Gomez shared a vulnerable moment, admitting that, 10 years ago, she wasn’t in a place where she could have fully accepted the love that Benny Blanco gives her. “He gets so weirded out by me saying this, but genuinely, 10 years ago, I wasn’t in a space in my life where I could have accepted the kind of patience, the kind of unconditional love that he gives me,” Gomez said.
This moment of reflection sheds light on the personal growth that has made their relationship stronger. Gomez’s openness about her emotional journey underscores the importance of timing in love and how the right relationship can only thrive when both partners are ready.
From Friendship to Engagement: A Look at Their Relationship Journey
Gomez and Blanco’s connection began back in 2013, thanks to an introduction by Gomez’s mother, Mandy Teefey. However, it wasn’t until 2023 that the couple began dating, and they kept their relationship mostly private until they announced their engagement in December 2024. Their bond, which started as a friendship, gradually evolved into something more meaningful.
In a heartfelt Instagram post from November 2024, Gomez shared her appreciation for Blanco’s unwavering support. “Not only do you love me unconditionally… You always get me my Taco Bell Mexican pizza,” she wrote. This lighthearted message was a playful nod to their shared moments and Blanco’s attentive nature.
Benny Blanco’s Advice on Relationships: “Find Your Best Friend”
Blanco, for his part, opened up about the importance of being attuned to your partner’s needs and maintaining a solid foundation of friendship in a relationship. “Find your best friend and don’t settle,” Blanco advised during their interview. His perspective aligns with the couple’s approach, which prioritizes communication and mutual respect.
Blanco’s playful yet wise words of advice also included a classic mantra: “Happy wife, happy life.” It’s clear that his perspective on love is rooted in a deep respect for Gomez and an understanding of the importance of partnership.
New Beginnings: A Surprising Musical Collaboration
In addition to their personal milestones, the couple recently revealed a surprise musical collaboration, which fans have been eagerly anticipating. Gomez and Blanco’s first album together, I Said I Love You First, will be released on March 21. The first single, “Scared of Loving You,” is already available for streaming, giving fans a taste of what’s to come.
Their partnership extends beyond romance into the creative realm, proving that they share a bond not only in life but in art. Blanco also shared a quirky Instagram post showing off a tub of cheese-filled food, with a caption that read, “When your [fiancée] isn’t much of a flowers girl.” Gomez responded with a sweet comment, expressing her love for the gesture: “I love everything bout this.. ????.”
Gomez’s Perspective on Love and Relationships
When asked for relationship advice, Gomez, 32, was candid about her feelings. “I don’t think I have life figured out in any way,” she admitted. However, she emphasized the importance of how she feels in her relationship with Blanco. “I actually feel valued. I feel seen. I feel respected. And I think that’s all I’ve ever really wanted,” Gomez shared.
Her experience of being “alone for five years” prior to their relationship has allowed her to appreciate the kind of partnership that she now shares with Blanco. Her honest reflections highlight the value of feeling understood and respected by a partner—a sentiment that has been key to the couple’s lasting connection.
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