Selena Gomez gives her fans a hilarious Tik Tok update.

Selena Gomez shared a good natured and humorous relationship status update and it’s not the first time.

And she reported that she’s still single!

“Guess who has a boyfriend? Not me b**ch. Y’all stay safe out there.”

@selenagomez♬ original sound – Celybird

But you have to ask, is the 31-year-old as ok with single life as she said?

Because one video might be believable, but she did this in June as well.

@selenagomezThe struggle man lol♬ original sound – Selena Gomez

And in the latest one, the self-depreciation could be a telling sign that she might want things to change.

Whether herself or the world around her needed to change, only she knows.’

“I’m single,” she said in June. “I’m just a little high maintenance.”

But is she high maintenance? or just have high standards?

Watch the clip below to hear about Selena Gomez relationship requirements.

Self -depreciation Yes, or No?

While self-depreciation can be harmless and even a sign of humour and modesty, there’s also a destructive side.

As such, the case of Selena Gomez in her Tik Tok videos, it can have the opposite effect of modesty and humour.

Could there be some low self-esteem and lack of optimism behind her humour?

But an online source said there are three things that can be done to balance self-depreciation.

And perhaps it’s about training our minds to think differently and think more positively.

Selena Gomez happy with single life?

Previously though, Gomez had suggested that she had embraced the standards she had for a relationship.

“I think I have standards, and I think I live in a world right now where boys confuse standards with high maintenance,” she told SiriusXM.

“I’m not ashamed to say, ‘I actually require X, Y, and Z for you to be with me’.”

And that’s ok, a good guy would be willing to meet her halfway, I guess.

But what do you think? Should Selena Gomez rethink some of her standards for a happier balanced life?

Published by HOLR Magazine.