The Former Actor Opens Up About His Sexuality and Says He’s Ready to Live Authentically After Years of Healing
August 7, 2026: James Haven, the older brother of Angelina Jolie, has publicly come out as gay at the age of 53, sharing an emotional message about embracing his identity and beginning what he describes as a new chapter in his life.
HOLR breaks down the story here.
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A Powerful Personal Statement
Haven announced the news through a heartfelt video and written message shared alongside his former partner and ex-wife, Romi Imbelli. In his statement, he reflected on years of healing from childhood trauma and expressed that he is finally living authentically.
Among the most poignant lines in his message, Haven wrote:
“I no longer feel the need to apologize for the parts of me that make me who I am.”
He also shared that he is beginning “a new chapter” filled with “hope, peace and love,” adding that he hopes people will continue to see him as the same person they have always known.
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Reflecting on His Journey
In his written letter, Haven recalled childhood memories of expressing himself through glitter, mascara, and a love of Disney princesses, explaining that these moments helped him feel most like himself long before he had the words to describe his identity. He said coming out isn’t about becoming someone new, but about finally sharing who he has always been.
Haven also acknowledged the support of Romi Imbelli, who has publicly backed him throughout his journey despite the couple’s brief marriage and subsequent annulment.
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A New Chapter
Best known for his acting work and for his close relationship with sister Angelina Jolie, Haven said he hopes to move forward with honesty and self-acceptance while encouraging others to choose compassion over judgment.
His announcement has been met with messages of encouragement from supporters, who praised his openness and willingness to share such a personal milestone publicly.
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Why is James Haven trending?
James Haven is trending after publicly coming out as gay at age 53 and sharing an emotional statement about living authentically.
Who is James Haven?
James Haven is an actor, activist, and the older brother of Academy Award-winning actress Angelina Jolie.
What did James Haven say in his coming out message?
He said he is beginning “a new chapter” in his life and that he “no longer feel[s] the need to apologize for the parts of me that make me who I am.”
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