It is an understatement to say we are all afraid of growing old. Different people have varying reasons to feel that way. However, if one sits with anyone and talks in-depth, they find that majorly it‘s the fear of becoming a liability. They take pride in their ability to do tasks and essentially live their life on their own. This fear is not just a foresight in the youth but a present-day frustration for those who are either nearing or have reached old age. Assisted living has always been an option, but the detached hospital-like nature of it all makes it an undesirable end to a life of such color and adventure. Senior Living Denver Coloradohas set up an institution that mirrors the essence of growing old at one’s own home—primarily focusing on retaining that sense of independence and dignity that we all fear losing as we age.

Following is a list of reasons why Senior assisted living should be a viable option.

In our ways, we are cultivating a future but, more importantly, a future in comfort. It has to be an essential consideration not only when we reach 60 years of age but 70 and 80 as well. The ages when we need is not monetary assistance but also physical aid. Assisted living is to be included in these retirement plans and pursuits.

As conveyed through movies and general media, the stereotypes around old homes are misconstrued notions of reality. Assisted living centers are not grey hospital wards where there is an amorphous collection of the elderly. Senior Living Denver,Colorado, focuses on making the environment a simulation of one‘s own house. Their tagline dictates that they wish to cultivate the feeling of growing old in one’s own home. This includes kitchen countertop balances, among other “normalities“.

In the current day and age, where both hands and feet are steeped in work, it becomes impossible to give the 24/7 attentive care that our elderly need. The sense of guilt and frustration of not being able to do so adds unnecessary tension and stress to the relationship. It is also hurtful for our elderly to be their children’s liabilities. It wounds their pride and sense of independence. Rather than mismanaging out responsibilities and relationships, there is no shame in accepting help. Both parties need to understand what the other needs. Parents want to spend time with their children, and children want to see their elderly happy and at peace. You do not have to complicate that relationship with guilt.

Assisted living is not only a viable option but also a necessary one. Growing old should be an experience that should make you happy and good about the life you spent. You would not want to spend it being dependent on others. Having help and being independent is not a dream. We can now choose and control aspects of our retirement.

 

Published on Holr Magazine